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Divorce by post

Dec 13, 2021 | Divorce

Q: If a husband leaves the family home , and in his absence sends the first Islamic divorce paper in the post signed and witnessed , and then the wife has sat the three months iddah / and the wife has never heard from the sharia council or the courts why the marriage was ended. Is this a valid divorce ?

A: The iddah is not 3 months, that is only in the case of a menopausal woman who will wait 3 lunar months. For menstruating women, they must perform 3 menstruations. The divorce will be valid though, as long as the husband was sane, although it will very much depend on what was written on the paper.

Answered by Shaykh Bilal Brown

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